Going home to be with mom well to be with Mom and Linda to be there to support Linda while she was taking care of Mom in those last few weeks that was no doubt the most important thing I ever did in my life. It was important for me because it connected me with them and you know with my mom and my sister dad has already passed. I’ve been home for dad‘s funeral too. I got there just literally days before he passed and in the hours before he passed. I got on my knees next next to the bed and I prayed and I just asked what more is there to say what more is there to do and he then did pass away and you know I don’t know if there’s a connection or not I was making notes on an envelope of all the things I can remember with that and you know I lost that envelope so let me see what I remember right now when I remember him being so strong I mean he used to make a muscle and I was just so impressed. I couldn’t believe how big dad‘s muscles were and he used to come home from work and he I just remember he was cold from being walking up the block and he felt cold and I’d come running out from watching Superman. I go flying into his arms and he always just swoop me up and you know gave me a big hug and sometimes he’d bring home a howdy duty puppet or something from NBC and I was you know so thrilled and impressed and I remember he would kick the football in the backyard and he would kick it under the huge oak tree and it would go up into the branches and hit the branches and again. I was so impressed. I just thought that was Superman and you know then of course we did have our conflicts starting in fifth or sixth grade when my grade started to you know, be mediocre and sea level and so forth an eight started putting pressure on men I rebuild so you know, I know now he probably was obviously much more mature and knowledgeable than I thought. I was such a hot shot and you know, I used to call the old man like I can’t believe I did that but anyway that was dad and you know this blog post was gonna be about Mom. I think I’ll just start on the next page