Suddenly Single and Seeking Validation Part 6

 Well, ironically, the topic was validation and your validating my concerns you're giving me how can I say supportive evidence? To you know to basically know, I'm kind of doing the right thing and you're not tunnel. You need to do this or you need to do that you're just giving me your insight and I really appreciate it and so that's the irony of this whole thing you've been very very supportive and I don't pressure you to do it. I think you're just sincerely that way oh and the one thing OK so thinking about the YouTube and everything. So we are having this conversation the other day everybody's really concerned about our political situation in the future chorea what are we doing and we need to do this we need to do that and all this stuff and I'm kinda have to be honest. I'm kinda like at the beach where you see a big wave or two coming in then you just duck ha ha I'm serious. I'm just ducking. I'm letting the wave run over me. I don't feel like I can really do anything beyond you know hopefully voting again. Maybe I'll go to a demonstration here or there, but you know making signs and making a lot of noise and carrying on I think I already told you that really interfere with this person's business they were in tears and I was much more empathetic with them with her than with the group I was actually participating with because she's they're just trying to make a living you know And people need to understand there's two sides to every story and every coin so I don't wanna be a disruptive influencer a person who hurts somebody else and again I'm being maybe too much of a jerk but my point to you is I love America I love freedom of speech I love what we're doing and all I can do is that oh but anyway so my point being they're talking about what can I do? What can I do? Well I told them that you know and they said how can we do something nice or something kind? To someone else so they were given examples and I was all for that that's great and everything. I said well one of the things I do and I've kinda made it my job I do Google reviews. I do a five star Google reviews and how great the experience was the food was whatever and that's it and Alice. I don't think they got it 

Alice McCracken Hurst

I'm listening and guess what I did another one yesterday I needed to 

You

But 

Alice McCracken Hurst

go get a check up with a doctor to find out What to do to fix the situation I had going on never met. The doctor never met the woman who took me in. They were both so great. I immediately went out and that Google review. I love it and you turned me onto that. I was never. I just I guess I just didn't. I didn't really know about it. I didn't know how to access it. It's so easy to access. So it just it makes the world a better place, and I constantly speak to people, especially people that I said may not get spoken to as much as others 

You

Alice Alice Alice, I swear to God if I was feeding you lines in a script, I couldn't write it any better you say the most wonderful things and that's the irony of you know you and I have kind of motivated each other and supported each other in this thing of writing 

Alice McCracken Hurst

Not kind of you've really helped me 

You

Well, find you again because I found and just the history of it when I moved to Hendersonville I started the website 1000 reasons to love Hendersonville. I got a card made up and I would go around and I give people my card and I'd say yeah I got this blog and one of my restaurant guys said to me we first he said how many followers do you have? I said I don't know I don't have any. He said well he said would you mind doing a Google Review. And I said sure well that was the turning point I realized and Google is very supportive of this. I mean, they are smart whether it's artificial intelligence or not I started writing these Google reviews and next thing you know they're telling me oh you know 5000 people watch your review of how you know whatever and all this great feedback that you get feedback. 

Alice McCracken Hurst

And I was sort of doing it before I knew about Google, but the great thing about Google is it helps the people who were doing it for that are doing an outstanding job And you know that's important to me is and today I asked someone if I could do a Google review and she said will let me send you a link to my appointment scheduling app that would be the best place for you to give me or the perfect I'll do it So it's also helping other people know where to go Well, and you know something interesting that happened to me recently I was talking with someone and I felt like I'd maybe annoyed them a little bit you know with which was my inner interpretation So I took the conversation a little further to learn more about that person And that too I believe that person got so excited about telling me their plans for their vacation and I thought you know There's a genuineness Of letting someone know that you are interested in them and that you have fine To hang out with them a few minutes and now whenever I see this employee, we have a relationship now and of course I did the Google review but it's just really I don't know. I feel like it's sending out those. Needed positive experiences And then I told him I told him the next time I saw and they said they're gonna check it out