Suddenly Single and Seeking Validation Part 5

 

You

Well, Alice, you know you just touched on such an incredible point there that you can literally be having kind of a group conversation, but within individuals 

Alice McCracken Hurst

Well, 

You

And it's 

Alice McCracken Hurst

of course I 

You

very 

Alice McCracken Hurst

know all 

You

interesting 

Alice McCracken Hurst

this. I've learned all those through the people I have no clue about all this and I thought but when you think about it when you're in high school or junior high well when we were in the 60s. You Dated different people and everybody in high school said oh well she's going with so-and-so did this or he's going with someone and they 

You

Right 

Alice McCracken Hurst

knew that it was a dating to get to know you situation 

You

OK 

Alice McCracken Hurst

not let's get into a relationship yet 

You

Right, right? 

Alice McCracken Hurst

You know you don't even know I'm so my thought is when you're dating or meeting two or three women at one time Then You've got it allow time to get to know that 

You

True Very true, but there's also how can I put this there is also Linda use the word out if I can even say it but like Geneseo something like that, there's also a whatever there's a sense that you have of Are you kind of pursuing this person? Do you based on what you know now I want to have a relationship and I have to say with this one young lady you know we've known each other now for a few years but now we're starting to know each other as individuals I am really excited about stuff you know like we've been starting to just do a couple little things and you know riding the bike a little bit and I just really love. How can I say? I just love loving somebody I love if I feel like I just wanna do nice things and say nice things and go places together too. We were walking the other day she said which way the guy said I wanna go with whatever way, you wanna go going back to the dog walking, but I mean you know it's true. I have told her a number of times I just want you to be happy I want you to be. I want you to have fun doing what we're doing. I don't wanna over pressure you or overwhelm you, but I'm thrilled that you are enjoying this and Alice, I don't know where it's gonna go. I don't I still don't I'm not looking to get remarried or anything like this or cohabitate but I don't wanna loser and I don't wanna. And then like I said, I don't want anybody else that I might be communicating with to think that we are on that same path we're not and 

Alice McCracken Hurst

Yeah, you they would know because you told them 

You

Right right so yeah and I don't wanna take up too much time on my alarm just went off. I gotta turn it off. 

Alice McCracken Hurst

Right 

You

Alexa disarm ring Alexa, electricity Alexa, save electricity Alice, this is crazy. I've got so many damn things going on with Alexa and they're mowing my lawn and they're setting off my alarm and I have a phrase that I can use to turn off the alarm where I don't have to say my code I mean, I'm doing the damn block. Do I wanna give her every criminal my Security code oh Jesus, yeah it's so damn funny 

Alice McCracken Hurst

Exactly 

You

everything I swear to God almost every subject was done with Seinfeld, but anyway, this is the great conversation. I'm gonna turn it off and turn it on again cause all this noise.